It is a poor idea to lie to yourself



Admit it to yourself and control things

We all have been in love and in that situation in which the person we love does not feel the same way. I am not saying that you should stick around and make a fool of yourself, but the earlier you accept that you have feelings for that person, the better is going to get for you. It is a poor idea to lie to yourself.

You know yourself and what you feel about the person and yet you are denying it to yourself. Why? I think because society makes you feel that way. That admitting that you care for someone who does not care for you is embarrassing and disgraceful.

Now i want you to pause for a minute and think. Like in every other addiction, no that I am saying that you are addicted to the person you are in love with, it is just an instance. If you don’t admit there is a problem, how will you correct it and move forward? How will you look for ways to break free of that that is tying you down, if you don’t admit it? For example: you very well know that you care for Peter, but Peter does not feel the same and in order for you not to get hurt, you have to break free from him. How will you do that, when you are denying you have feelings for him? - You cannot change what you don't admit.

So, it is very important you tell yourself the truth. Admitting to yourself that you very much care about him is a good idea, because it will now help you break free from him. We all know that when you do have a problem, psychologists and therapist will tell you to admit the problem or the issue first in order to turn things around.

Next time you want to lie to yourself, pause and think. Admitting what you feel or have done is a great idea. You don’t need to lie to yourself, you will be burying things and in the long run it will affect you. Tell yourself the true and you will find a way out. Trust me, it works magic.

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