Appreciating vs Complaning

She is appreciative of him

Appreciating in my understanding means giving thanks for everything and having gratitude at all times even when things go wrong. This gives you a sense of inner peace and that will give you room to see the bigger picture. Complaining makes one not find the good things you have and adds  more stress to whatever you are going through.

Its true that its hard to appreciate when things don't go our way and when we don't get what we want. Instead of seeing the bad in it and complain, take the time to appreciate and a sense of inner peace will come upon you. That inner peace, will make you not worry about anything and when you are not worried, your head is clear and you have more perspective on things. That peace of mind is a gift, in that, you will have a clear and strong mind, and you will be ready to look for solutions.

I believe that everything has its opposites; wrong and right, bad and good. When things go wrong, don't panic. Take a deep breath and just say the words "thanks or thank you", it will help you regain strength in the form of peace and your mind will generate a way out of the situation. When you appreciate instead of complaining, you will have clarity on what to do and above all you will have stress free life, full of peace. Choose to say thank you instead of "that its not good/that its not fair" - life its not fair and it will never be, so,  instead of sitting miserable, find new ways to make your life memorable and worth living.


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