Forgiveness allows for peace
of mind and that, shouldn’t be traded for anything else in the world. This world
has a lot of challenges and difficulties, you can call it whatever you want to
call it; but one thing is certain, life is too short to be living with resentment.
When you forgive you release
the negatives and allow for positives in your world. Your world already has a
lot of stress in it, why do you want to allow resentment to rule your
life? ask yourself this one question: does it worth it? To be honest, resentment does not
add anything tangible to my world; it just makes me live in the past and
not in the present and my present brings its own issues already.
I know life brings unexpected
bad experiences – we get hurt by people we love and at times by those we don’t
even know; and we have every right to be angry but you don’t need to be cruel
to yourself; because when you don’t forgive, you are being cruel to yourself. You
deserve to have peace in your life and when you don’t forgive, that will not
happen. When someone wrongs you, forgive. You are the number one person that
will benefit of the forgiveness and then the person that wronged you.
Forgiveness is a process.
Before you forgive, you have to grieve. You will never forgive, if you don’t
take that first step. After the grieving, chose to forgive. Like every other
thing in this world, forgiveness is a choice. You chose to forgive because you
want peace of mind and want to move on to living your life.
You don’t need to have closure
to forgive. At times you will have closure and other times, you will never get
it; either way chose to forgive.
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