I am a very confident
person and it is a trait I have in me since I can remember. Being a confident
person does not necessary mean that you will not feel low. It means the
following:
Knowing who you are
as a person; what you want and where you are going. This should be independent
of your family’s traditions and society’s thinking of whom you should be and
how you should act. You need to ask yourself, who am i? What do I want and
where do I see myself? You need to find yourself, independent of people.
Take care of your
physical outlook and dress smart. This simply means, take care of you by
exercising, eating well, relaxing and sleeping, taking your bath regularly and
dress smart.Taking care of you, will make you feel good and thus, bring
self-confidence.
Appreciate yourself
and others.
Believe in yourself.
Compliment others and
mean it. When you see something good, learn to appreciate it, instead of hating.
Accept failure and
defeat with grace. This simply means, that you accept the fact that you are
human and you will not have the answers to everything and at every time – you accept that at times life
will bring difficulties and challenges that you cannot handle and that does not
make you a failure, but a survivor.
Do away with pride and
arrogance – you are not better than anybody. No matter how much money and power
you have, you are human like the rest. So, live life loving and respecting
people.
Do not be intimidated
or envious of anybody’s beauty, riches, power or whatever.
Do away with proving
yourself to people.
These are but a few i
can share with you; and believe me, they work. It is not rocket science – try
and find out how true it is.
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