Fish falling from the sky

To write something meaningful about this topic, i had to look at it from an angle of human lives, what we expect from life and how we react to situations. We have vocabularies like "life its not fair" or "why do God as a loving being allow so much suffering...". We have the right to ask such questions or make such statements, because we all go through obstacles on our way to success. Here is the thing, your dreams doesn't get achieved by only good things happening to you, but through the rough times, we get to learn; we learn through suffering strength and wisdom and how to stand on our two feet. Things can't be handed to us, we have to fight, loose the battle, stand up again, learn and achieve success.

She is waiting for life to be fair to her

If we had the chance or if it was possible, we will seat in our asses and do nothing and expect greatness in return. we expect "fish to fall from the sky". We do  not want to do the hard work, we do not see the meaning behind falling, we need to succeed always and get whatever we want when we want it and anything other than that is "not fair".



Working and not
expecting the product
to create itself.

 It is time for us as humans to learn that there is a reason for everything and that to get something, you have to work for it. it is not going to fall from the sky. Yeah, its good to believe in a God that does everything, but you have to help him, help you. You have to know that every tear and hard work, will be rewarded. Don't expect fish to fall from the sky.

As long as you are in this world, things will be hard and there will be obstacles and its not because God does not love you or life its not fair, but there are lessons that we as individuals have to learn. Things don't come easy, you have to work for it and you will surely be rewarded.

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Who is that girl???

Victoria

Dear audiences, i feel that i need to introduce myself to you, why? -  i don't really know, but I think its because i will write from my heart and having a background of me, will not surprise you about my writings. Its true that you can't know all about me in a blog, but at least you will have the basics that you need to assess or judge me. I should have done this at the beginning of my blog, but anyways, as they say "its better late than never"

Who is that woman, Victoria?

My name is Victoria Isabel Ndong Mele and my house name is "Vicky", you are more than welcome to call me by my house name...haha. I am from Equatorial Guinea, the only country in Africa that speaks Spanish and i live in the capital called Malabo. I am a siblings of two, i am the eldest and the younger one is a male who goes by the name of Jesus Damian Ndong Mele. My mother is Amparo Mele Colifa and my father is the late Jesus Ndong Bindang. Like every other African countries and cultures, my family consist of cousins, aunts and uncles, grandparents, nieces and nephews, and family friends. I have a very very big family and i cherish them to death.

I did my primary school in my home country and my secondary school in Nigeria for a period of 6 years and there i learn discipline, responsibility and respect. Although, i didn't enjoy the country, i have to say i learnt lot of good things there. You know what, i think its because of the hard life, it gives you strength and wisdom to go through life - its strange to see people suffering and they are still optimistic about life and i am using that wisdom here in South Africa. I am currently completing my course in Public Relations Management, here in Cape Town, South Africa.

My friends and i having fun!!!

My cousin and i dancing - Christmas 2011

I love dancing and singing.I believe that both arts help you express your emotions. I express my different emotions through dancing and singing. These arts have helped me go through obstacles in life. Whenever i feel i can go on,i run to music and i sing and dance the fear, stress and obstacles away.I don't know if any of you feel the same way.


I love my family and friends and i am very on point with God. I am not claiming to be perfect or holy, because no one is; but i reverend the man upstairs, because he is really full of love, mercy, wisdom and grace. I do my best to live my life for him, by loving people. I strongly believe that we are all here to look out for each other. Imagine a world in which instead of competing or comparing, we all work together towards helping each other, that is what love is.



If I had to go on, I will never stop because my life its full of interesting stories but i am going to leave you by saying that i am an easy going person and i don't take nonsense from people. I don't follow the crowd and i luv socialising with people of different cultures, because i believe in learning from others. There are things you can't learn in class, but that only your environment and the people around you will give you. My life its the combination of both the good and bad things that life throws my way. Also the combination of wise and foolish decisions I have ever made.

Above all "i balance life". I love to party, its in every Equatorial Guinea blood..haha, let it be known that i don't take my work for granted. For me, there is time for everything. I think I will stop here.